Life Training is About The Essence of Humility to Overcome Prejudice by Gary Eby
Coach Life free from prejudices! When it comes to this crucial subject a person's typical inclination would be to base it on race, sex,5803 Ugg Bailey Button Chestnut Boots, social status and so on. But let us delve on this on much broader since first and foremost it is a people issue of vital importance. Ask yourself, is this my worth? Is this your worth?
Often times we neglect to empathize on what others are going through. We are viewing it in our own perspective as opposed to walking in their shoes. It is an egotistic approach that is often dubbed as being self centered,3352 Ugg Bailey Button Mini Grey Boots. When we discriminate on others we are venturing on a reproachable act of playing. First and foremost we have no idea on what those people are going through. What is my worth? Am I doing my Personal Mission?
There are certain factors that affect people to act beyond the accepted social norms it could be stress and imminent fight or flight mechanism triggered due to an emergency. Like a mom rushing through traffic worried of her child. She had worked nine hours at an under appreciated, under paid job that day. She's eagerly driving home because she still has to cook for her children, help them with their homework,contacting other people for sex is not a lark. Your husband is doing something covert which may end your marriage., do laundry and then hopefully ... if time allows ... spend a few precious moments with her children which is the most important thing.
We need to remember ...that the haggard looking, body pierced, overtly tattooed, disinterested and disillusioned young man who is having problems making change correctly is, in fact, an extremely stressed and worried 19-year-old college student. He's currently mentally juggling and balancing his apprehensions over taking final exams ... with his fear of not getting his student loans for next semester.
We need to remember ... that the feeble elderly couple walking so "stinking" slow through the store aisles and blocking our shopping progress is savoring and enjoying this precious moment, knowing that, based on the biopsy report she got back last week, if God doesn't intervene, this will be the last year that they go shopping together.
Drop all your pre conceived ideas and be open to see the good in others, regardless of their appearance, reputation or actions. Let us not judge or prejudge. Empathize with others get to know them beyond the norm of social interaction, who knows we might make a significant impact on their lives.
Let's Coach Life, Never prejudge or discriminate!
I would like to share an interesting story I read recently. After a recent long trip from Boston, there was an older couple who I got a chance to be acquainted with. The lady adorned her hair in a neat bun while wearing a faded gingham dress. Her husband was elegantly dressed in a homespun threadbare suit. They left the train and walked rather shyly, without an appointment into the office of the president of Harvard University!
The secretary could tell immediately that these backwoods country folks had absolutely no business at Harvard.
"We'd like to see the president," the man said softly.
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